Calm Alone
Reading your dog

Calm, mild, stressed: reading your dog on a home camera

You can’t train what you can’t see. A camera turns “I think it went fine” into something you can act on. You don’t need anything special. Any phone or pet camera with live view works.

Setting up

  • Point the camera at the space your dog spends time in, not just the door.
  • Check you can see the whole area on your phone before you leave.
  • Watch live if you can. If not, record and watch afterwards.
  • Note the minute any signs start. That tells you more than the total time.

Calm

Calm is what you’re aiming for. Your dog might:

  • Lie down and settle
  • Have soft eyes or close them
  • Sleep
  • Chew a toy slowly

A dog who glances at the door and then settles is calm. What matters is where they end up.

Mild signs

Mild signs mean your dog noticed and isn’t fully relaxed:

  • Lip licking or yawning
  • Watching the door
  • Short whines
  • Brief pacing that stops

After a session with mild signs, repeat the same length next time rather than going longer.

Stressed

Stress is sustained and hard to miss:

  • Barking or howling that keeps going
  • Pacing that repeats
  • Scratching or chewing at doors and exits
  • Heavy panting or drooling
  • Accidents

After a stressed session, step back to a shorter absence and rebuild. See graduated departures for how.

Signs that need a vet

If you ever see your dog injure their mouth or paws, or try to get through a window or door, stop sessions and call your vet. That’s beyond what a training plan should handle alone. Read when to call your vet.